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A reader asks - I know this will cause a bit of a stir but i was wondering why do tops use dildos on bottoms? I feel it will take the pleasure of the fuck/sex or whatever it is you do with the person you are with because:

• The dildo is usually way bigger than the real thing, so if you open someone up with a dildo, you will make the other person want something bigger.
• If its used to test their limits, then I guess that’s another ball game. But why do something that will make the person you’re with seem small?
• I guess it can be good if you use it to make the person cum so then they will be tighter because of the muscles tightening up. I don’t know.

Me as a bottom feel that it’s irrelevant to use a dildo because it takes out of enjoying the one you are with, but that’s just my personal opinion. Maybe the person using the dildo know that they are lacking stamina and they want to please the one they are with I really don’t know. Can someone please explain this to me?

Here’s what you told him –

• Personally I think dildos are great. I read an article years ago when two guys fucked the hell out of each other while sucking each other off in a 69 at the same time. I gotta say, that sounds so hot. There is also another angle to consider. If your partner is diabetic or on heart meds and not able to sustain or obtain an erection, it can be a safe way to provide pleasure for one another. It’s just my take on it.

• OMG LOL !!!! I wonder if Bear Films read the same article as you since that sounds like exactly what I and another guy did when we did a movie for them just last week. Funny thing was that until last weekend I never had a dildo used on me, nor did I ever use one on anyone else for that matter LOL Before last week the last time I even touch a dildo was way back in 1992. My cousin Paul wanted me to go into an adult book store to buy him one for his wife…as an ANNIVERSARY present. I did (though I did tell him that was not a good idea). Anyway after I bought it and gave it to him, he wrapped it up for his wife. However the anniversary party was still several weeks away so he had totally forgotten about this gift. Anyway at the party right in front of all the family, his wife opened the box… and well…. The happy couple was divorced a short time later. I warned him LOL

• You warned him indeed . . . LMAO. . .it just goes to show, not only do straight men not ask for direction, they don’t listen when it’s offered. LOL I bet he wished he’d listened.

• To each his own on that because i personally can’t deal with a person putting his arm inside my body better yet getting my asshole stretched out like that (kinda painful I think). So when you fucked, does the other half have to use a “monster” dildo for you to get pleasure or is there no such thing as just a regular fuck by a normal guy anymore. Don’t take any offense, I just inquiring about this because I know your ass eventually tighten up but that can take a long time right?, or is it that you only mess with a guy who’s into fisting?

• I have only one dildo that I sort of like. I believe it’s a Mark Wallace cock. It’s average length, but thinner than most. That means it goes in more easily than thicker ones, with little or no pain (I don’t find any pain other than with my tits erotic), and I can practice deep throating with it, though with some difficulty. Also, the cock head has a ridge on it (like most cock heads). It often catches some shit on it. I can lick it off if I’m feeling nasty. In any case, I usually use it myself; so that I’m in control of it. I generally prefer butt plugs. They seem to do what they do better. My favorite it a very heavy one (over one pound), chrome-plated brass. It is very smooth, goes in very easily, and is able to slide in and out by its weight, stimulating the prostate just by moving my hips, leaving my hands free for my tits and my cock. It is my most frequently used toy, along with tit clamps. In all cases; I do it all masturbating myself. If I have sex with someone else, I prefer just using my butt or my mouth.

• Nothing compares to the real thing working its way in… who would want to remove that pleasure from both partners??????

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